Pamela Jo Stiles 10/19/1952 – 04/11/2015 A dark cloud decended upon Nashville on April 11, 2015 when god called one of his angels back to his side. The world lost a loving and caring wife,Grandmother,GreatGrandmother and special friend to many. Pamela Stiles was daughter of Harold and Josephine Ihrig (deceased), sister to brothers Ricky Ihrig(deceased), Robert and Richard Meadows,and wife for 24 wonderful years to Thomas Stiles.She was a caring and loving person who always put family and friends before herself, even through all the pain and illness she continued to do this.She was respected and enjoyed by all her co-workers and customers who got to know her in her many years in the restaruant business. She always put everyone and anyone before herself no matter how she felt that day and never thought twice about it no matter the risk to herself.Even during her hospital stays she would insist on going home to be with and take care of her kids and family. Argueing with doctors, nurses and anyone else who would listen to let her go home. At the same time she was always telling everyone about all her kids never placing them as Grand or Greatgrand, or even neice or nephew.To her they were all her children. Even when her children brought friends home she would tell them to call her mom or gran gran. She treated them like they were one of the kids. No one was better than the other, they were treated as equals because she refused to have a favorite. She will be forever missed and respected by family and the people around her. Pamela is survived by a large family. Daughter: Michelle. Grandchildren: Scott(married to Janeane), Ainsley, Kailey(married to Juan), Elishia, Sharlene, Noah and Jordan. Great-grandchildren: Tristan, Travis, Audrey, Leon, Landyn, Madeline, Destinee, Arilynn, Trinity and Maximus. Father and mother-in-law: David and Sue Schieck. Her uncle: Ronald Ihrig. Cousin: Cherie Desmond. Sister-in-law: Mary Jane Davis. Neice: Brandy Hankins. Great nephew and neice: Bentley and Emily. Along with close friends Kenneth(dog) and Patricia Watson, Rusty and Tina Brietenmoser, Sue Bursfield, Leslie Gaunce with son Billy, and Eric and Lisa Joseph with daughter Catelynn. All of these will now have an emptyness inside due to her passing. The family welcomes everyone to add any thoughts or comments if they would like too.